instead of taking this as a negative think of it as...she loves the quilt enough she wants to make it even more usable in her world (with your assistance) much better than going to visit to find out the quilt is on a closet shelf because it (needed a ruffle)
be happy she loves it that much!
i made my sister in law a quilt one time...a crazy quilt with velvets, silks, lots of hand work...beautiful...i made it to go on their new leather sofa...where it looks beautiful! sister in law decided a quilt should be on the bed instead of on the couch..so hid it away because it's too small for her bed...it took a year for me to find out the (truth) about the quilt. when i made it i thought it was perfect for what i made it for...not my house...not my decision...not so perfect after all...at least your friend was up=front enough to let you know (and help) make it fit (her) better...i wish mine behaved the same :thumbup: