No no no, she was not trying to hurt or insult you at all. We are all different, our tastes in anything and everything vary from person to person and are rarely the same. It's like vanilla/chocolate, morning person/night owl, mayo/miracle whip, you are usually one or the other, but that doesnt make just one of them "right". It's like if you were to choose a dress with spaghett straps or a dress with ruffles, your choice wouldnt be right or wrong, it would just be your preference. Your friend prefers ruffles. Take comfort in knowing she is content with her new quilt with ruffles. Wouldnt be my thing either but neither is miracle whip :-)