Purple AND ruffled... gag. I see it a little differently. If she wanted a ruffle, so be it and you helped her, but to say "Finally beautiful", like your work needed her finishing touch to become beautiful, was just plain RUDE. If that's what she thought, she should have kept that thought to herself. If it was ME, I would have to tell her how/why she hurt my feelings by what she said, before I could go on the same way with the friendship. Give her that chance to explain what she meant by that statement and to apologize. Adding the ruffle wasn't rude (chalk it up to taste) but those words sure were!