I need to put it down in writing, but my DH & kids know that I want any stash left ? to be USED, not thrown out. I remember an aunt who had a big garage sale BEFORE my grandma died; then she threw a lot of things out without even asking the rest of the family !!
One DD is into quilting now so hope she will want some things. Also have agreement with friends that we help look after each others stuff, to go to the guild and bees. :)