Annaquilts

Maybe ask Matt and also let him know that you would not mind being called grandma. It sounds like you have a good relationship. I have one living grand child, Juliet, and I am her bubu, grandma in her biological mother's language. She is not biologically related to me or DH. My adoptive son fathered her and that was the extend of the relationship. She lives far away but I see her occasionally on skype and sent her things. I am very greatful that her bio mother is receptive to us. I hope your story has a good ending. My mother was oma and I intend to take that name for some of my other grand children or grandma. What ever the kids or grand kids decide. The relationship is more important to me then the title.