I am lucky enough to have my grandchildren near. My son in law was in the service and lived in Germany for 6 years. We went to see them once, and they didn't get home much. They moved to Michigan about 50 miles away. Never thought that they would ever live near us, when they were away for so many years. Our son in law retired from the Army three years ago. So, we have been able to have the last three Christmas with the grandchildren, and I have a wonderful husband.