I can relate to the eye rolling part - I perfected it! But my Mom's decorating style is at a different end of the spectrum from me and my kids are opposite of us both. So how do you make an on the spot decision that works long term for all? I am only asking because this is a very real place I am at right now. When does it become "just stuff". I appreciate that bearisgray began this topic, I hadn't realized how much this issue bothers me and very interested in following this, thanks all.