I'm chiming in again. My 3 sons have all told us what they care about and what they don't want. I'm glad I asked them b/c I was "assuming" they'd want more. All 3 are minimalistic but sentimental and want family treasures. It's making my de-stashing a lot easier.
One day my husband and I looked around our family room and honestly there were only a few things we really wanted in that room.
It's amazing when you look around. We both loved collecting stuff, mostly antiques and collectibles. But enough is enough.