Thank you ladies, you are all so inspiring I will go home tonight and try and accomplish on thing that I need to to get set up to sew/quilt. Once I get in my room I don't want to leave it, it just the making my self get there. I think you have given me renewed interest and the desire to be productive instead of going home and feeling sorry for myself. I know there are many people in my position who has lost a spouse or someone close and trying to bounce back. On sad note is that he bought me a Nolting Long Arm Machine and I very much to get more into that part. Again thank you for all your stories and encouragement. Maby these were necessiarly for me but I sure got the love, friendship and emcouragement from them.