Originally Posted by redquilter
On a group effort like this we can afford to be perfectionists. Do your part, let her do her part and the quilts will be wonderful. Believe me, no one will notice or care if the seams don't match up perfectly or something is a little off. The love that they are made with will shine through. Just let it go.
The "let her do her part" is exactly right, she may be just thrilled to be helping and it's not fair to take her "feel good about herself moment" away so that you can make the quilt perfect. They are not judging the quilting skills, they are making a gift of love. Just relax and take a deep breath, I do know that's very hard for a perfectionist to do, but you have to try on this one.