Originally Posted by Monie
Just to clear things up. I had to buy more fabric all the batting for a soon to be son in law. And she wants to pay for the fabric and she knows I get only a little diability chech so she wants to help but she ask me how much . I told her what every she wanted. The answer was no you tell mr. I have made each 5 children 5 quilts each and 4 for each 14 grandchildren. And I had to stop making a breast cancer quilt to have hers done in time. I am a very good and giving mom and grandmother. Monie
Now what you were saying makes a bit more sense.
I think you are saying...
You are not asking her to pay you to make the quilt.
She wants to maybe help a bit more than just the fabric?
If she provides/reimburses all the materials (fabric/batting/thread) anything over and above that (if anything) should be considered a gift from her to you and at her discretion.
However, in the spirit of her wanting to help you, if there is something you need/want you could let her know... give her the opportunity to feel as if she's helping you but not feel as if she's "paying" you to make it.
Is that close to what you were meaning?