Originally Posted by Sadiemae
My cats are gone now, but I had a male and a female. They never did like each other, but kind of ignored each other.
I have a male and a female cat. When they were small they liked each other very much. Now the female is the alpha and beats up on the male when he tries to walk past her or come in the cat door. When they're both inside they have their own space. They still don't like each other, but one sleeps on our bed and the other on a chair in the living room next to my chair. As long as they don't invade the other one's space, they do okay and have for five years.