I agree with Xylie55 and all the others who told you to go anyway. If your husband has decided not to attend (and he doesn't believe in vacations), then taking your sons and going for 3 days or more would be good for each of you. Do you want your sons to grow up believing that work-a-holics have the right idea? It isn't healthy, mentally or physically. Good luck! I hope you end up going and being with your family. God bless you.