I would take your boys and go. My husband like yours is a workaholic. I tell him if he doesn't want to go fine but I still am. For our 25th ann. I booked a small 3 day cruise, told him, he had 2 options, #1; go and try to have some fun and relax, #2, if I go by myself and find some rich guy, guess what I am not coming back. We went with option #1.