guess i could have phrased it better. i simply enjoy seeing all of the finished - and not so finished - items that folks post. i'm a single mom with three kiddos and a paid full-time job. i consider it a good day when i remember what we are all doing! the "baby" is 16 so they are fairly self sufficient. some nights i sew like a crazy woman; others, not so much.. but the kids all know when i go out and turn on the music i'm serious