I worried about my daughters- thinking they would be horrible. The teen years flew by, it wasn't until younger daughter was away at college that I realized I had survived the teen years! I have a great relationship with them- we talk daily about anything. Love them to pieces.
Now my sons- wow- what happened? The youngest was put on the earth to test my patience and at 19, still does. Don't get me wrong, he's a good kid, but no motivation. I keep waiting for something to peak his interest. Someday.... Other son is on the eight year plan for college. Right now on year 5. I'm a firm believer that kids need time to discover themselves, but I would love to put a dollar value on the wasted classes. He has settled down, dean's List now and working full time too. He's a great guy and has goals.
Over all- I'm pleased with them. They are all real nice kids to be around. I love talking to them and being a part of their lives without being overbearing.