Living with anyone period is a pretty much a job in its self. We are all different people and it is a matter of do you want to have to always consider another persons wishes before you persue your wishes. They will always be different and at different times. It is a big give and take situation. I was single for 20 years after my first failed marriage. I told my now husband of 12 yrs I was not good wife material because I never wanted to be made to feel like I had to are was supposed to do something just because it was a required part of marriage. I finally gave in and got married and it has been a good marriage but it all finally comes down to putting someone elses feelings into every decision you make from that day forward. Just my thoughts not everyones I'm sure. If your happy why fix what isnt broke?