At the point I read your message my thought was that you are missing the clothing - the fabric that gives me, and probably many others the inspiration for our creations. Once you see the clothing, you may be able to "see" the loved one that is no longer able to comfort the recipient of this creation, and you should be able to feel some joy in knowing how much you will be helping them out. My mom passed away a couple months ago. I am so happy to have her raggy old sweater to keep me warm...