Originally Posted by PatriceJ
i think the question answers itself. :wink:
you won't be doing either him or yourself any favors if you talk yourself into it and drag yourself down the aisle.
if your gut reaction to the imagined proposal sounds anything like "i'm not sure", then the answer must be "no". ok. add: "i adore you. it tickles me pink that you feel that way. but ..."
I was thinking this, and I think Patrice has said it very well. Don't say yes until you're sure that's what you want.