I was married for 20 years, been divorced for 8, and I don't know if I would get married again. At first, just the barest HINT that someone was becoming serious about me and I would be scared to death. Literally I could feel the blood drain from my face and the adrenaline rush of fear through my whole body.
Now, I love living alone for the first time in my life since last August. I want companionship but living together even? I just don't know. I like doing what I want to do, when I want to do it.
Now if I met a man where there was no doubt at all and the thought of marrying him made me HAPPY, then I would.