The situation you are in is horrible. But you should do what is the best for you and I do believe doing something that is making you happy,relieving stress is the thing to do. It not only helps you but helps your DH. If you are unable to cope very well and a husband comes home to sadness,it makes his job harder to go to,especially if he hates what he is doing. Coming home to a wife able to cope with what is happening to you,would seem to me is better than coming home to a dark cloud. But my gosh you have a great deal to handle and who would blame you for have a dark cloud.. So you quilt in your room until you cannot and try to make room where you are going to do some. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Keep us posted.
BillsBonBon