Barb M

I don't know, i guess kids go through stages, even our adult kids. When my two girls were teenagers, they were inseparable. And our house was a fun time then. Then right after their teen years, oldest one became snobby to youngest ones life choices, and visa versa, and you just wouldnt even know they are sisters. When my oldest one was in her twenties, she loved for the two of us to go shopping, then she had her baby and lived with us for awhile, and when she got her own place she was only 20 mins away, as a single mom she was alone and bored, so she would phone us every night, and we'd see her and elisa several days a week. Now she has a fiance, and they're an hour and a half away. We're lucky if she phones us once a month, we phone couple days a week just to try and talk to our grandaughter, and most of the time she just wont answer the phone. So i know she has a life now, but somehow she makes it clear that we're not good enough for her. I know she is disgusted with me having hd, because now i can't be her "all in all". So it's complicated. But, i think she just has some growing up to do, but we used to have fun, a lot of fun, now she doesnt want to so whatever.