I just want to say thank you for all your input. I am trusting that God will have us where He wants us....just not sure right now if He and I want the same thing.LOL No really, God has led us thru so many many years and so many many trials and I know He is very close to us right now...Thanks so much it helps to have someone who isn't too close to the situation give their views...Bless you all, Jackie