I've given my daughters & DH instructions, there is a list on the bulletin board in my sewing room of who gets the sewing machines, then the 3 daughters (none sew), daughter in law can take what ever sewing items & fabric they want. The only fighting there will be is they'll each be trying to make the other take the stuff-LOL. DIL does do some sewing so she might want something & maybe granddaughters. So after they have taken what they want then they are to call my guild friends to come over & take everything else. I explained this to a guild friend in case DH & daughters forget (don't think they listen to me) & told her the day after the funeral to come over with home baked cookies for DH & he'll let them in to take everything left. She exclaimed "You mean we have to wait til AFTER the funeral"-LOL
Maire