I also used to do it all, work full time, have a child at home, take care of the house, shopping, errands, cleaning and for those of you who remember the days, starch my husband's shirts til they could stand up on their own! And I still managed to find to crochet (my hobby at the time). Now I am a stay at home wife on the road, living in a motorhome, and it seems the place is never clean enough, always cluttered and we are packing up and moving just about every week. When my DH is at work, I'm too tired to do anything. Gotta get some motivation, cuz I do have some time in the evenings. It seems the busier you are, the more you can do.