I'm sorry you had such a stressfull weekend! Having a special needs child(ren) is not easy...especially when you first get the diagnosis. Try not to stress too much right now, when the final results are all in the picture may change!
Autism is a very broad diagnosis...varying degrees....types... let it sink in for a while. I have spent the last month researching this for my niece, as she is going to be moving closer to me soon. There is sooo much more available today than 25 years ago when she was first diagnosed. I am amazed at how much help is available from doctors, psychiatrists, pharmacy and support for the families.