Hang in there, Wanda. I moved here from NH 25 years ago and felt just like you. I didn't know how to quilt back then, but took an adult ed class, then joined a local guild. The first year I was "volunteered" be be chairman of the boutique at our quilt show. I was terrified, but it was the best thing to happen. I met a lot of wonderful quilters. Now I go to a weekly quilting bee and it is the best day of the week for me. I love it down here.
I think you have to have a very frank discussion with your husband and tell him how you feel. But, also, give Florida a fair trial. You may learn to love it also.