Joy- thanks for being so honest-and look at the tons of responses you have generated!! We quilt because we love to, everybody on their own level, and I am right there with you. God bless you for being a caregiver to so many with so many needs, that puts you beyond any perfect quilt in Paducah, by far. Do you ever get a break?? Does any one come in to spell you for a few hours here and there?? I know any of us would if we could!