I have been happily married for nearly 26 years and what has served me well is the thought: We are in a marriage and it's give and take and it's 150/150 on each side. I don't believe it's greener on the other side. You fell in love with the person you married. Don't change him because he won't be the person you married. I see far to much with this. Wait till their married and think they can change the other person. Marry with the standards you want and not with ones you think you can change. be happy ,smile and always try to make his day easier, happier and you'll find yourself happier.