I have just celebrated my 28th Anniversary and have 3 wonderful daughters who came to share it with hubby and me. It is still hard work working on a marriage. You CANNOT change your man. That is one thing i have learnt. I have to be the bad one and moan and moan and moan if i want something done. But there again, i do it myself sometimes or get someone else to do it, or just leave it... LOL Lots of options, i just have to choose the "right" one for the cause! I have got to love the good and the bad parts and that is what makes him the unique and wonderful husband. Just remember, you also have faults and they cannot be easy to live with either. I have changed over the years, and still need a lot more changing, but there are some things, that i just cannot change and the same with him. I am very, very, very lucky and i still some days cannot believe that God chose him for me. I am truly thankful.