Mary, good luck with the rehab. I, like you, hate to do binding. I can do the machine stitching on the one side but it takes me forever to do the hand stitching. I've tried machine stitching both sides but don't like the results. I have, however, found someone I can pay to do the binding. You might want to search for someone who would do that in order to finish some of your almost completed quilts. After they are completed, then you could decide what you wanted to do with them. As for as your overall quilting addiction, afraid that another addict can't offer a lot of help.
I too am trying to cut back on fabric purchases by deleting emails w/o reading. Fabric purchasing has been reduced but not totally eliminated.
Wish I could offer more help.