I went thru a whole month without buyying anything related to quilting. When I got e-mails, I deleted them right away. It was very hard but I made it thru. Start one step at a time. If you have that many unfinished quilts donate some to a womens group. They might be able to finish them and make use of them. Limit yourself to maybe just 2 irons.
You need to let go. Keep your head up high. You can do it!!!