Thanks y'all, I can't express how truly wonderful all you ladies are! As for the grooms mom...........I don't know. I would love to meet her before the wedding, but Dan has already told me that she may not even show up. (apparently they dont get along very well) Now he does have his aunt and grandmother that I believe would be a great help, IF they were closer. As I said before, all his family is way up in Long Island, while we are down here in Oklahoma. My family has always gotten along for the most part, and it just breaks my heart for the families that don't.
Anyway........DD is still trying to make up her mind what she wants. She is even considering a small scale wedding until Dan gets back from wherever he will get deployed to. I guess the army can't decide where to send his unit. Looks like either afganastan or Korea........ Looks like this is becoming a "hurry up..........wait" moment..............*head spining........lol