We have gone through this before and still going through it now. My dear MIL had a quilt her daughter made for her and it had her name on it. It went missing for months.It was found in someone else's room. Even her nightgowns with her name clearly in them were found when someone else was wearing them!! Now my dear FIL has had his belts, clothing, quilt, etc. gone missing. Only to later turn up on someone else. We have put names clearly marked on all of his belongings and have constantly complained to the people working there.....to no avail. We decided that as long as he is wearing clothes, I guess we need to just relax a bit. These homes are short-staffed and doing the best they can (I am trying to convince myself). Still it is very frustrating.