When the kids move out, their lives are pretty full and busy. They do think of us, but it is normal for us to miss them more than they miss us :wink: Soon, that newness wears off and then they call/keep in touch more often...all on their own :D :D I kept calling at regular intervals, invite them over for meals, sent goodies home with them, and in no time they were dropping in unannounced for meals, use of laundry facilities, and some of mom's love and attention :lol: :lol: :roll: :roll: :lol: :lol: