Wow Wow and Wow I never thought about all this and they are not family members. Just a friend but I agree I don't want to end up asking for to littel and be miserable later. So I have been call day care centers. Here for the 4 year all day its $503.00 for the month and 550.00 for the boy because he is parttime when school starts and they say it cost more that way and plus add the transportation in.