I can relate, I am 52 and it took me until I was in my late 20's to realize that I was a good person even if I didnt clean my plate. LOL. That is a large part of it "good children" only do 1 project at a time etc. and everyone wants to be good. So tell yourself it is ok that you do more than 1 project at a time, that you will still be a "good" person. Silly but it works. and good luck