To lighten this up a little...for first son's wedding, DH wore a powder blue tux with blue ruffled shirt and navy bow tie, plus medium blue patent leather shoes! We were able to afford it, thank goodness, but he looked somewhat like a pimp!
Second son was easier, Navy whites with sword and medals. The 1st wedding was in the 70's and didn't last. The 2nd was 10 years later and is nearing 25 years!