I am so blessed. Last son to marry, the men wore their white dress military uniforms. The only "odd" man was my other son. Since the bridesmaids all wore long black dresses of their own choosing, my DDIL told my other son (Best Man, we lost my husband two years prior) to get whatever he wanted to go with, black would be fine. He was over 400 lbs at the time and white would have been just awful. (Has had lapband since and looks awesome!) So he wore black and it looked great. Plus the girls all had dresses they loved and would get to use again. And the wedding was the most visually stunning wedding I have ever attended. My new daughter won big for her practical approach!