My husband knows I love to shop and go to quilt shops. He sees the bags come in. I just don't announce what it cost. He doesn't really care. I take care of the bills and they are always paid.
I was working part time and used to say it was my fabric money, now I quit, but I still spend for fabric. LOL
We have been married over 50 years and he supports my love of sewing even when I give all the completed projects away.
Jean