Next time you go to the Golf store. Tell him you are going to see how much time he spends here. Go and have fun and let him snoop, play anch check everything out. Ohhhhhh by the way each minute you spend here I get to spend at the fabric store. I did this with the electronics store and it works great. Another idea that has worked for us is I drop him off or he drops me off and goes to the electronics store for a couple of hours and I am at my favorite quilt store for the same time.