Honestly, I have been married for 41 years and my husband and I don't hide things from each other. He knows I buy way too much fabric and I know he buys way too many tools. I show him what I buy and he shows me. He doesn't get mad and I don't either. We each have our hobby and yes, it's his money I am spending since I don't work outside the home. If he tells me no more fabric, I won't buy any more, and the same with his tools. I think it is much better to be open and honest with each other. Like my friend said, If you hide fabric, what else will you hide??