I didn't realize so many people would be upset over the issue of trust in a marriage and fabric overload. Seriously who really can hide all those fabric (beads, dolls) purchases since it comes from the same checking account or credit card account. I don't try to hide the finances, but I do hide the fabric (and the beads and the dolls.........). Although it is pretty hard to hide the extra large dogs I have a habit of bringing home :)