That poem is so cute and true. Stay at home Mom's s/b pd for the work they do it is a job which if we didn't do it can you pic the men doing it or the kids. My DH and I have always put our money together and pd bills and what was left after everything was taken care of we could spend it. The first few yrs are tough with 3 kids but I used to sqeak out a couple of $$ to spend. Now I have to be careful since I retired money's not the same.Don't ever let anyone put you down because your a stay at home mom w the most important job in the world. Sue