Ok here goes!!
It's time to call it quits, and make a clean break!!!
Don't know how old he is, but if he is renting just a room. no wonder he wants to live with you!!
RED flags are going off everywhere, and I say that You are too good to be used!!!
Make a clean break and cut him out of your life completely, then you are open for the right man to come along! :D
Life is too short to waste it on a relationship that isn't going anywhere, and if he was the one for you, you would have jumped at marriage, but you know in your heart that he is all wrong!
Good luck, and look around you, that right jperson could be right under your nose! :wink:
Ninnie