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06-07-2009, 05:27 AM

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sandpat

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Sounds like you know exactly what you want and need. Good for you..good decision. :D

06-07-2009, 06:29 AM

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Butterfli19

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Thanks! And thanks to quiltncrazy who summed up for me wonderfully! lol

I'll have you know I did bookmark this because I just discovered what bookmark is :oops: When he starts acting up I'll just reread them. :-)

However, I'm sure discovering bookmarking will delay today's quilting :wink:

I feel much better. The 'wacko magnet', using my niceness against me, cya at work, and the humor, everything was so what I needed.

I love it here...

06-07-2009, 08:08 AM

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pocoellie

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I would listen to my "instincts". One of the old sayings is, don't date or marry a co worker, but definitely let him know you're not interested.

06-07-2009, 11:15 AM

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MadQuilter

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Butterfli19

He sends me a text - You made me very upset.

NOBODY can make somebody upset without their permission. YOU do not need to own that statement or the sentiment behind it.

06-07-2009, 11:16 AM

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kwhite

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i missed this whole thread till now but like I tell my child, the best decisions are made when your heart and your head agree. Sounds like neither one of them was in it here for you. Good call breaking it off.

06-07-2009, 11:48 AM

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Mplsgirl

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Boy this guy was a disaster in the making! How old is he? Good for you for getting out intact.

06-07-2009, 03:05 PM

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QuiltyLisa

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Hmm, my first reaction was Working together and dating..not a good plan.

I would just tell him in person, you are no longer interested. Be polite about it but get your idea across.. Good luck.

Lisa