whoa! he sure cooled his heels, when you said no.
He actually put it out there, when he said, "HE" couldn't live alone on s.s. in future!
I don't blame you for how you feel.
I'd just let the whole thing drift right on down stream. I would't settle, for somebody wanting to scarf up my retirement either.
My mom has had these kinds of boyfriends, and they develop health problems, and then their kids are no where around, but they get the inheritance, if there is one.
Nope, sounds like a sponge-job, to me...that's sponge0bob, when he gets older, lol! :wink:
tain't funny though. These types, can really soak up, your hard earned dollars, and be a burden. You were smart not to marry. He may have even been hoping, you'd kick the bucket first.