Jamie-For your health issues, there must be some non profit hospital somewhere in your area. I would check around and ask. Also, ask your doctor, sometimes they will refer you to a doctor who will see you and your family without cost or according to how much money you make. Please don't put the breast exam/mammogram off, it's better to catch it earlier if it's cancer, if it's not, then it's a huge load off your shoulders. There's lots of good ideas that are possible, you just have to decide what you can do. Please feel free to vent anytime-believe me, if I had 4 kids, I would be venting all the time.