I think they're great and I can understand why you're hurt. I think most young people (anyone that hasn't moved out on their own) don't understand craftmanship and doing something that takes alot of time and patience. I think they view quilts as "bedding" and something that's strictly utilitarian. Unless these kids ( and probably their mother too) have been around you and seen what goes into making a quilt they have not concept of the craft. Personally I wouldn't waste my time on anymore handmade gifts. And yes I would rather give money and not get thanked than to give a quilt with no acknowledgment.