I recommend sex in the sewing room if that is what motivates you. The big worry about the fire was my son was home alone when it happened, it wasn't really until the dust so to speak settled and having to look at the devestation afterwards that it really sunk in. And then having to look at it for 7 weeks while the insurance company was trying to decide if they were going to cover it or not. Going through the stuff was torture at it worse. Just this Jan Feb I opened some of the boxes that the quilting fabric got saved in, they decided that they couldn't get the black out so they didn't clean it at all, that I opened them and tried to deal with it, I picked out few pieces that I wanted for my daughters quilt and sat on the kitchen floor in tears, black and smelly. My DH washed the rest for me.